Things that are not intimidating
When I hear this, I don’t really take it as a bad thing — probably because it really isn’t.
In fact, I’d so far as to say that I am happy to be intimidating.
Anyone who’s ever met me can tell you that I tend to have a pretty intimidating aura about me.
I’ve even had dates tell me flat-out that I’m an intimidating lady.
While this can sometimes cause problems, intimidating people are often times the most caring and attentive once you come to know them for who they are. People know that when you say you’re going to do something, you will.
You have revolutionary ways of thinking and learning new things. You often times far surpass your peers, leading to them resent you.
Either way, you’ll be able to tell who you should avoid and who deserves to be part of your life. I stopped being “cuddly” when I realized that most people didn’t take me seriously when I was in fluffball mode.
Being intimidating often means that people who would normally discredit you will hear you out instead, and that’s a great thing in many situations. Whatever intimidates people about you will likely be present in a good number of people who are close to you. After all, nothing is cooler than being badass with your squad.
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While it may take a while for karma to act out, the fact is that it will happen eventually.
By trying to curb your naturally intimidating nature, you’re kowtowing to a bunch of losers who deserve to be outed as jerks.
Here’s the sad truth: doormats and teddy bears don’t always get too far in certain circles.
Being intimidating, whether it’s because of your career or your attitude, can actually be the fastest way to gain approval.
If someone finds you intimidating, you’ll learn a lot about their personality pretty quickly.