Lovedrop online dating


10-Sep-2017 02:33

I couldn’t believe my eyes when they matched me up with dozens of sexy, ­gorgeous hunks whose ­dazzling smiles beamed out at me from the screen. After submitting my credit card details, the millionaire Brad Pitt lookalikes all mysteriously disappeared and no amount of searching ever uncovered them again.

Posing by their sports cars, keen to tell any prospective ladies that while they had two homes and earned a salary that could single-handedly pay off the national debt, they were still ­sensitive souls who liked to strum their guitars and do parachute jumps for charity. They were, of course, plants, who were there to lure in naive punters.

The virtual world, that is, not the real world — don’t be daft: men like that were all snapped up years ago. I was single and not in bad nick, but working long hours in a female-­dominated environment meant I never got to meet anyone.

Well, don’t — because, ladies, the world is full of handsome, charming men with six-figure salaries, who are all queuing up to commit to ­people just like you. It was 14 years ago, when I was 30, that I first tried online dating.

So many people partake that it has became an acceptable way to meet the opposite sex.

But when I started it was a bit like train-spotting — you’d heard about it, you knew it went on, but the sort of people who did it were a little bit odd and not the type whose ­company you’d keep.

There are on average seven women to every man, creating the kid in a sweet shop effect. Whenever I started to see someone on a regular basis, I could never bring myself to admit where I’d met him to my friends and ­colleagues. They couldn’t believe my success in meeting men at the super-market, the dry cleaners, on the bus, in the park. The longest relationship I had as a result of meeting on an internet dating site was seven months.

She replied cynically: ‘He’s ­probably back online now, lining up the next one.’ I checked his profile online — it was flashing, which meant that he was messaging someone else. And that’s the huge stumbling block with internet dating: there’s too much choice. It felt a little bit grubby and, if I’m honest, desperate. Why on earth did I think the idea of a childless woman cruising for men at the zoo was somehow less embarrassing than admitting the truth?Any online dater will stand or fall on the strength of their photo.And as the average person looks, well, average, they have to boost their chances of success by posting totally ­unrealistic images.Today, there are hundreds of ­dating sites to choose from, catering for those with all sorts of criteria: ­vegetarians, Christians, single ­parents, sports fanatics, people who like pets.