I wish I could answer your question, but based on the little information available, I can’t really say if they are both narcissists.However, I’m very happy to know that you and your son were finally able to leave.He love bombed me oc, gave compliments, came on really strong, pretended to be romantic, and all to rope me in to fall for him. He is emotionally devoid of any feelings of hurting others and plays the victim card when all along it was him! must add he also went out on two occasions with two seperate women , new friend women because he wanted to ‘understand women’ lol (he was with me at the time), total lack of care.he consistently promised we would live together when he moved out his parents (age 35 lol), after 4 years he moved out and then backtracked on promises, said he had to ‘know he could stand on his own two feet’ lol. he lied about working with other women, blatantly lied.He used me so he could get back on his feet knowing other women would not stay around through all of that for 4 years and him living with his parents. as soon as his lies and awfulness caught up with him when i started wanting to confront the issues, he would disappear until he thought the issue would disappear. lonely , he wont be happy your ex only as long as he gets his supply from someone else and his new one will see the light at some point.
Anytime I stand up to him or set a boundary, I have to hear about how I’m just a loser that’s upset that he left me and I need to move on.Hugs, Kim Xo Xo Reply My Narcissist husband has been cheating on me, he now lives with his girlfriend and emails me he loves me and wants me back but he’s still living with his girlfriend.We are going through a divorce that I filled for as he doesn’t care he left me and our 3 boys.Reply i lived with a narcissist f or 25 years he discard me for younger woman, I am tortured by him and new married woman, i do not think that i will get over. For some reason, the immoral SOB felt entitled to do so.