Dating addict recovery
Dating is one of those things that can really change the course of someone’s recovery.
Dating in recovery can be confusing, whether it’s two addicts in a relationship or a “normie” and addict dating.
We’ve seen this repeatedly in treatment centers and sober livings.
Two individuals begin dating, one has some difficulties, and both relapse.
Something I try to keep in mind in my own relationship is how we can grow together.
In my experience, if we both aren’t growing individually, we can’t really have a healthy relationship. We both have days or weeks of difficulty or struggles, and we support each other.
With two addicts in a relationship, it can be easy for one or both to stop doing what keeps them healthy. Our priorities can fall to the side as we chase what feels good.There are some general statements often made about people in early recovery and relationships.One rule often suggested in twelve-step meetings is that people should not date in their first year of recovery.We look at our sexual behavior in our fourth step inventory and often find that we’ve used others just to fill our own desires.